Yes, if she's seeing him often. I have a friendship with my ex too but if I'm in a good relationship, I won't be hanging out with her often. If this sort of action takes place a lot then just don't allow it to happen - put your foot down and set boundries. No need to be vindictive. If you start checking out other women, it doesn't make the relationship stronger - agree?bigjohnson said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What Everyone is Calling Branch Swinging
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