Yes, if she's seeing him often. I have a friendship with my ex too but if I'm in a good relationship, I won't be hanging out with her often. If this sort of action takes place a lot then just don't allow it to happen - put your foot down and set boundries. No need to be vindictive. If you start checking out other women, it doesn't make the relationship stronger - agree?bigjohnson said:If she's seeing her ex recreationally you're by definition not in a solid relationship.