"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What does your week consist of?

What does the fun in your week consist of?

  • I never leave the house except to get mail and occasionally go to dinner/gym

    Votes: 8 22.9%
  • I go out to the bars once a week

    Votes: 6 17.1%
  • I go out to bars every opportunity I get (more than twice a wk)

    Votes: 6 17.1%
  • I go to a party once a week

    Votes: 9 25.7%
  • I go to paries every opportunity I get (more than twice a wk)

    Votes: 5 14.3%
  • I do street pickups once a week

    Votes: 3 8.6%
  • I do street pickups every opportunity I get (more than twice a wk)

    Votes: 5 14.3%
  • I have no need to pickup women but I am participating in this interesting poll to piss off DrIx

    Votes: 3 8.6%
  • I have gotten laid in the past 3 months

    Votes: 17 48.6%
  • I have NOT gotten laid in the past 3 months (but there is a good reason for it ;D

    Votes: 9 25.7%

  • Total voters
    35

drixsa

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I want to do this poll to see whats the situation in the community.

I am reading a lot about people going out and doing cold approaches, really cold approaches in the street not at a party or a bar.

Personally, i have met more women at
(house)parties and bars then by tryin to get their numbers off a ten minute conversation where very little overall was actually spoken.

Though without even considering this parties/bars are more FUN.

I am interested to see where our "community" is doing their DJ'ing.

So do my poll and remember CHECK ALL BOXES THAT APPLY!

note: diablo, keep your dirty mods hands off my post and don't move it from this forum :trouble:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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diablo

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Don't you think 3 months is a bit too long? I mean, we're talking about a quarter of a year. If you haven't gotten booty in that time then you really aren't learning much from this site. :p
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Don't you think 3 months is a bit too long? I mean, we're talking about a quarter of a year. If you haven't gotten booty in that time then you really aren't learning much from this site. :p
You can learn just about everything there is to know about masculinity, sexuality, and women in a couple of days on this site ... it's getting the balls to apply that knowledge and getting the skills to apply it successfully that takes months, if it happens at all (especially the first part).
 
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drixsa

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Originally posted by diablo
Don't you think 3 months is a bit too long? I mean, we're talking about a quarter of a year. If you haven't gotten booty in that time then you really aren't learning much from this site. :p
I heard of slumps lasting this long...
 

So pimp its scary

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"I heard of slumps lasting this long..."

Ya, before I found this site...

I was also gonna mark the street approaches thing, but its' never a consistant once a week thing... sometimes it might be twice in 1 day to cover a whole month.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I got uni and work at night so normally I'm too buggered to go out sarging. gotta work on my uni game though.
 
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