"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What does your week consist of?

What does the fun in your week consist of?

  • I never leave the house except to get mail and occasionally go to dinner/gym

    Votes: 8 22.9%

  • I go out to the bars once a week

    Votes: 6 17.1%

  • I go out to bars every opportunity I get (more than twice a wk)

    Votes: 6 17.1%

  • I go to a party once a week

    Votes: 9 25.7%

  • I go to paries every opportunity I get (more than twice a wk)

    Votes: 5 14.3%

  • I do street pickups once a week

    Votes: 3 8.6%

  • I do street pickups every opportunity I get (more than twice a wk)

    Votes: 5 14.3%

  • I have no need to pickup women but I am participating in this interesting poll to piss off DrIx

    Votes: 3 8.6%

  • I have gotten laid in the past 3 months

    Votes: 17 48.6%

  • I have NOT gotten laid in the past 3 months (but there is a good reason for it ;D

    Votes: 9 25.7%
  • Total voters
    35
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I want to do this poll to see whats the situation in the community.

I am reading a lot about people going out and doing cold approaches, really cold approaches in the street not at a party or a bar.

Personally, i have met more women at
(house)parties and bars then by tryin to get their numbers off a ten minute conversation where very little overall was actually spoken.

Though without even considering this parties/bars are more FUN.

I am interested to see where our "community" is doing their DJ'ing.

So do my poll and remember CHECK ALL BOXES THAT APPLY!

note: diablo, keep your dirty mods hands off my post and don't move it from this forum :trouble:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't you think 3 months is a bit too long? I mean, we're talking about a quarter of a year. If you haven't gotten booty in that time then you really aren't learning much from this site. :p
 
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Originally posted by diablo
Don't you think 3 months is a bit too long? I mean, we're talking about a quarter of a year. If you haven't gotten booty in that time then you really aren't learning much from this site. :p
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You can learn just about everything there is to know about masculinity, sexuality, and women in a couple of days on this site ... it's getting the balls to apply that knowledge and getting the skills to apply it successfully that takes months, if it happens at all (especially the first part).
 
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Originally posted by diablo
Don't you think 3 months is a bit too long? I mean, we're talking about a quarter of a year. If you haven't gotten booty in that time then you really aren't learning much from this site. :p
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I heard of slumps lasting this long...
 
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"I heard of slumps lasting this long..."

Ya, before I found this site...

I was also gonna mark the street approaches thing, but its' never a consistant once a week thing... sometimes it might be twice in 1 day to cover a whole month.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I got uni and work at night so normally I'm too buggered to go out sarging. gotta work on my uni game though.
 
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