"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What does your room look like? [pics]

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by 007~JC
Diablo has a thread about this.

He will probably merge this in his.
You're a genius. :p

Merged with "What does your room look like? [pics]".

Great idea though! Let's keep this going - everybody here with a digicam (which is 70% of you probably) post some pictures of your room. There's no reason not to, and who knows - you might even get good advice on how to change things so it's more suitable for entertaining the other sex.
 

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Yeah, I'd planned on moving out of here in the next few months but I'm not going to be able to anymore. Hurricane Katrina displaced about 50% of New Orleans' population into Baton Rouge, where they decided to stay. Our town has doubled in size in the past week. There are literally no apartments or hotel rooms to be found in the entire city - even normal houses are selling like crack to an addict. Funny thing is I'd planned on moving out with the girl I've been seeing for the past year or two... "Taking the next step" - which perhaps God was trying to show me would be the wrong thing to do.

Yeah, that's it. God made Hurricane Katrina just to show me that I shouldn't move in with a chick. Sounds like I'm in the same boat as that meteorologist who claimed that the hurricane was created by the Japanese Mafia with a weather machine in retaliation for Hiroshima.

Guys, I know I mixed in Katrina stuff with this thread but please keep future postings about the hurricane to a thread devoted to it... this one is just for you to post the pictures you take of your rooms in... thanks much.
 

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soon as im out on my own

ill post pics this spring.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wake this thread up !
 

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I live in an apartment with 5 other people and share my room with my girlfriend. I have a laptop, a desk, bed with two matresses, cd player with amplifier and speakers, weights, my martial arts stuff and a whole bunch of books.

Im happy
 

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Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
I live in an apartment with 5 other people and share my room with my girlfriend. I have a laptop, a desk, bed with two matresses, cd player with amplifier and speakers, weights, my martial arts stuff and a whole bunch of books.

Im happy
A picture is worth a thousand words... and it's not like it's hard to take one...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by jiza101
What did you all think of my joint :)
it was hot.
 

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It's pretty messy at the moment but that is nothing like it has been in the past few months. I have recently started cleaning it up a little bit at a time the past few nights and it has gone from a complete mess to just quite messy. I would say in about a weeks time it will be quite tidy and organised. :)
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by ak5
i feel almost bad for posting this, pics were taken by a v400 phone. This is my room so far, moving out in 2 months :)


from the doorway:
http://img293.imageshack.us/my.php?image=doorway4ph.jpg

closet:
http://img293.imageshack.us/my.php?image=closet3vs.jpg
the right side of my room
http://img293.imageshack.us/img293/3972/rightside5rw.jpg

front end/study/computer desk
http://img143.imageshack.us/img143/6620/front0dp.jpg
what'd you do, throw a smoke grenade?
 

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Cool for you guys to share your rooms... some neat some not so neat.. but thats cool... looks clean... i need to get me some plants... makes my room so much fresher... any suggestions?
 

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dude, why do you want to see what peoples room looks like?......what are you?....some kind of peeping Tom?.....go out on a pantie raid and get back to us. post your results, I think it will be kinda neat. more constructive than this horse $hit
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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