"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mertz09

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I agree with this^^ and to @Mertz09 your attitude that a woman who has early sex is 'low quality' is precisely why many women intentionally withhold sex despite wanting it.

Social conditioning and concern the man might view her as a 'hoe' and low quality. I am guilty of this myself not proud to admit!

But I am rethinking how I view things and conduct myself because I think every situation is different and should be assessed as such.

Also BE can correct me if I am wrong but I recall her posting she and her now-husband had sex on first date that lasted three days!

And they are now married! :p
I was quoting what BE said a few years ago about women “chasing” Men. “She may not "chase" you, but what she will do is make it easy for you. She will say yes when you ask her out, she will demonstrate interest & investment, she will be fun to be around. That isn't chasing but it is still (+) responsiveness.”

BE said that is how the "Higer Quality Gals do things"

I don't remember that, "her now-husband had sex on first date that lasted three days!" It's none of my business anyway.

I agree with what The Duke said that older women are not as quick to have sex and will hold off, I'm, guessing to be more comfortable with the Man.

Back to my question, It looks like "most" of the women mentioned above are younger, 20s 30s, I remember when I was in my RockStar 20s & 30s the same was true. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I am referring to all women, regardless of age. If they don't subscribe to my way of doing things, then I find a better prospect. I don't think putting out on the first or second date means you are low quality, nor does not having sex until the 8th date make you quality.

I did notice when women start to get in their early 40's and later, they aren't as quick to have sex. They like to drag the process out longer and to me the juice isn't worth the squeeze. There was a time I would date 45-49yo plus women but never again.
Really, About 5-6 years ago I and a Gal move in with me and that was some of the best sex, She was 50-yo.
And yes she was a little wild and crazy and could get moody, I finally had to end the relationship. :) But is was fun while it lasted.
 
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