"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What does your dating routine look like?

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I agree with this^^ and to @Mertz09 your attitude that a woman who has early sex is 'low quality' is precisely why many women intentionally withhold sex despite wanting it.

Social conditioning and concern the man might view her as a 'hoe' and low quality. I am guilty of this myself not proud to admit!

But I am rethinking how I view things and conduct myself because I think every situation is different and should be assessed as such.

Also BE can correct me if I am wrong but I recall her posting she and her now-husband had sex on first date that lasted three days!

And they are now married! :p
I was quoting what BE said a few years ago about women “chasing” Men. “She may not "chase" you, but what she will do is make it easy for you. She will say yes when you ask her out, she will demonstrate interest & investment, she will be fun to be around. That isn't chasing but it is still (+) responsiveness.”

BE said that is how the "Higer Quality Gals do things"

I don't remember that, "her now-husband had sex on first date that lasted three days!" It's none of my business anyway.

I agree with what The Duke said that older women are not as quick to have sex and will hold off, I'm, guessing to be more comfortable with the Man.

Back to my question, It looks like "most" of the women mentioned above are younger, 20s 30s, I remember when I was in my RockStar 20s & 30s the same was true. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am referring to all women, regardless of age. If they don't subscribe to my way of doing things, then I find a better prospect. I don't think putting out on the first or second date means you are low quality, nor does not having sex until the 8th date make you quality.

I did notice when women start to get in their early 40's and later, they aren't as quick to have sex. They like to drag the process out longer and to me the juice isn't worth the squeeze. There was a time I would date 45-49yo plus women but never again.
Really, About 5-6 years ago I and a Gal move in with me and that was some of the best sex, She was 50-yo.
And yes she was a little wild and crazy and could get moody, I finally had to end the relationship. :) But is was fun while it lasted.
 

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I don't think putting out on the first or second date means you are low quality, nor does not having sex until the 8th date make you quality.s
100% agree. In fact if a woman won't fvck within the first 3 dates that can only mean low interest. A women will fvck a guy right away if she likes him enough. Holding off on that is utterly ridiculous, because you just KNOW she doesn't do that for other guys. I've even heard some women admit this - she'll fvck 1 guy right away and then make guy 2 wait for months because she wants a relationship with him. It's completely retarded. It blows my mind when I hear men say they didn't bang their GF for the first 3-6 months. What kind of self-respecting man would do that?

I did notice when women start to get in their early 40's and later, they aren't as quick to have sex. They like to drag the process out longer and to me the juice isn't worth the squeeze. There was a time I would date 45-49yo plus women but never again.
This shvt is retarded too. The value of a women's pvssy decreases with age yet women 40+ hold onto it like it's some sort of cherished prize. I think many of the women who do this do so because they literally have nothing to offer besides their pvssy and they know it. So they try to create an artificial demand and get as much out of their vagina as they can (attention, dates, money, whatever) so they feel like they got something out of it. Older women make me sick sometimes.
 
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