"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What does this say about personality?

sosousage

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I chat with this girl on and off, she invites me for sex sometimes (but i didnt agree for it yet as i thought she was joking but im sure shes serious now)


And shes VERY straight to the point. Her typical message:

"i licked whole house, now you can come over and lick me" (it means she cleaned house)


is she alpha? girls usually are scared to say this to not be perceives as wh0re or as easy im sure, or they simply dont want to say it.



also most of the time if i go this sexual with other girls through texting they would remove me or stop responding.



so what it means?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lizardking82

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What it means LOL common, man, it means go bang this chick if you like her. Even this you need to overthink and discuss?
 

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Have you met in person ?

Maybe it's a dude setting you up to rob you... lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sosousage

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Have you met in person ?

Maybe it's a dude setting you up to rob you... lol
i did once and i had this feeling all the time like shes trying to reach certain pleace to rob me with her friends in dark alley




we are set for tommorow and she says that we cant do it before 8:00 pm because of sun. lmao. i suggested to meet earlier and said that we will turn off the lights and shes like "no, because shame", it has to be after 8 PM .


wtf ;D i cant take her seriously. as far as i know she had only 2 sex partners so maybe shes really ashamed of doing it when its not dark completely BUT it shouldnt be a problem as i suggested we can turn off the lights...

I dont get it. i dont think she want to rob me. maybe she has a boyfriend or something is more likely. or maybe shes just like that
 

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Where the hell do you keep meeting these weirdos? You meet them online?

If so,tell me where......cause that's one site I want to AVOID at ALL COSTS.
 

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i did once and i had this feeling all the time like shes trying to reach certain pleace to rob me with her friends in dark alley




we are set for tommorow and she says that we cant do it before 8:00 pm because of sun. lmao. i suggested to meet earlier and said that we will turn off the lights and shes like "no, because shame", it has to be after 8 PM .


wtf ;D i cant take her seriously. as far as i know she had only 2 sex partners so maybe shes really ashamed of doing it when its not dark completely BUT it shouldnt be a problem as i suggested we can turn off the lights...

I dont get it. i dont think she want to rob me. maybe she has a boyfriend or something is more likely. or maybe shes just like that
Hell NO... Trust your gut.... Something is way off.
 

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i got her from tinder. she also constantly refuses to give me address to her home. not sure why its a problem that i find place myself with map on my phone instead of her coming to bus station to pick me

ps she moved recently from parents and she still lives in same area... weird?
 

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she has a muffintop, likely a HB6-

bets?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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