"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What does this mean..?

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Okay, so this girl I've been working for about 2 weeks in school. Finally I texted her yesterday and I was like Hey, what you doing tonight? wanna chill? And she responded no more than 30 seconds later saying Sure, give me a call around 6. So I call around 6 and she doesn't answer. I then call 20 minutes later and she answers and makes up some reason why she can't hang out...should i be nexting thisg irl or what should i do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by guitaronfire411
Move on. She's using you.
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What?

I want more to this story if you expect good replies. Was that text message the first contact with her?
 
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Dont next her just yet.. First of all.. Shes probably playing hard to get

-Her not answereing your calls
-Making up exuses


These are some of the examples of how girls play hard to get as i listed above.

What you need to do is *ignore* her for a couple days. See how she reacts to this.


Or just next her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is a pretty terrible story.
 
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