Okay, so this girl I've been working for about 2 weeks in school. Finally I texted her yesterday and I was like Hey, what you doing tonight? wanna chill? And she responded no more than 30 seconds later saying Sure, give me a call around 6. So I call around 6 and she doesn't answer. I then call 20 minutes later and she answers and makes up some reason why she can't hang out...should i be nexting thisg irl or what should i do?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What does this mean..?
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