Ok. Heres the deal. A girl i know who works in the same biulding as me and i have sort of struck up a friendship over the last few months or so. I actually met her like a year ago, but had some pretty awkward conversations that i forced and thought things were going nowhere.
However in the last month i have noticed some changes;
Normally if i was with someone else who actually works with her (i am friends with a couple of her managers) she would almost seem that she doesnt know me, or doesnt want to talk at all, and try to escape the situation or get me to leave it.
This has totally stopped as i was with one of her bosses the other day and she came into the office (as she does when her shift is over, hand in money etc) and we seemed to get along, almost kind of flirting. ie she made a joke about my name as we were referring to my bad score in the footy tipping, also she was checking the chart and i went to look at it as well and without realising i stood directly close to her, she didnt move at all, even prolonged the conversati0n by pointing out a couple of her good scores throughout the year.
Anyway there have been a few times where ive had the chance to walk her to where she is picked up from work, and it sometimes seems like she is moving close to me.
The main one that makes me think was the last time we spoke, she was excited about going somewhere on the weekend and kept closing in towards me to the point where i took slight steps away. This happened as we were walking, also as we stood.
Ive actually been meaning to ask her out but the opportunity for a natural suggestion hasnt been there so ive avoided it, more than likely acting apprehensive.
It does seem like we are kind of just friends but there have been times where i feel like theres some tension in the air. Like if we are walking towards each other we smile before we are within talking distance.
What would you do?
P.S. I will be seeing her again in like 2 days.
P.P.S. I cant believe a forum like this actually exists :cheer:
However in the last month i have noticed some changes;
Normally if i was with someone else who actually works with her (i am friends with a couple of her managers) she would almost seem that she doesnt know me, or doesnt want to talk at all, and try to escape the situation or get me to leave it.
This has totally stopped as i was with one of her bosses the other day and she came into the office (as she does when her shift is over, hand in money etc) and we seemed to get along, almost kind of flirting. ie she made a joke about my name as we were referring to my bad score in the footy tipping, also she was checking the chart and i went to look at it as well and without realising i stood directly close to her, she didnt move at all, even prolonged the conversati0n by pointing out a couple of her good scores throughout the year.
Anyway there have been a few times where ive had the chance to walk her to where she is picked up from work, and it sometimes seems like she is moving close to me.
The main one that makes me think was the last time we spoke, she was excited about going somewhere on the weekend and kept closing in towards me to the point where i took slight steps away. This happened as we were walking, also as we stood.
Ive actually been meaning to ask her out but the opportunity for a natural suggestion hasnt been there so ive avoided it, more than likely acting apprehensive.
It does seem like we are kind of just friends but there have been times where i feel like theres some tension in the air. Like if we are walking towards each other we smile before we are within talking distance.
What would you do?
P.S. I will be seeing her again in like 2 days.
P.P.S. I cant believe a forum like this actually exists :cheer:
It might save you some trouble down the road.