What does she's "scared of pushing me away?" mean in non-female lingo? She caused a bunch of drama the other night, fought, discussed, and everything seems fine again. She mentioned this after talking about how dramatic she gets.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What does this mean?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She might suffer from anxiety. If so, I'd be patient but not supplicating. So if she demonstrates ****ty behavior like the other night, don't let it go - withdraw your attention a bit, don't contact her or initiate plans for a couple days, etc - but give her maybe a couple more strikes than the average girl.
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I'd translate that to she is DRAMA. She senses you don't care for it and worries that eventually you will have enough of her schitt and pull the rug out from under her.luber873 said:
NEWS FLASH BIATCH..........how about straightening up your act and you won't have to worry??? Ooops there I go thinking like a man. Rational logic is just too simple and a lot less dramatic.
Go ahead and define your expectations on how the relationship will operate. Set the bar high. IF she rises to the occasion, keep her. If not toss her to the side because she cares more about herself than she does you.
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It's chickspeak.
It's not supposed to make sense.
It's not supposed to make sense.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.