"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What does this mean?

Bricka

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I guess I know what this means but I just don't want to accept it :p

So here goes. I tried making a move on this girl. We were in a room along, just playing a game, nothing sexual. At the end I decided that now would be the time for a kiss so I told her to 'come here' . She kept asking why while giggling/smiling a lot. I kept moving towards her while she was doing that, when i got within a foot of her she turned around and left saying "ok i'm going now" while giggling quite a bit.

This was at work btw.

I've never had that happen, every other time it was either a complete success of complete rejection, but this I dont know what to make of.

My brain isn't being cooperative at seeing the objective truth here, so I'd like you guys to give me your opinions. What do you think happened?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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amoka

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Some girls are just different. What works with one many not necessary work with the other. You probably frightened her when you asked her to "come here..." and walking towards her like she is a prey. At times predator/prey tactics just don't work well...
 

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Bricka said:
So here goes. I tried making a move on this girl. We were in a room along, just playing a game, nothing sexual. At the end I decided that now would be the time for a kiss so I told her to 'come here' . She kept asking why while giggling/smiling a lot. I kept moving towards her while she was doing that, when i got within a foot of her she turned around and left saying "ok i'm going now" while giggling quite a bit.

This was at work btw.

What do you think happened?

Are you kidding? What if she got caught and got fired?
 

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DonJuan11 said:
Are you kidding? What if she got caught and got fired?
She's quitting. Her last day is in a few days. I'm not THAT irresponsible :p
Edit: And she handed in her resignation long before I ever thought of doing anything.
 
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