"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What does this mean?

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I guess I know what this means but I just don't want to accept it :p

So here goes. I tried making a move on this girl. We were in a room along, just playing a game, nothing sexual. At the end I decided that now would be the time for a kiss so I told her to 'come here' . She kept asking why while giggling/smiling a lot. I kept moving towards her while she was doing that, when i got within a foot of her she turned around and left saying "ok i'm going now" while giggling quite a bit.

This was at work btw.

I've never had that happen, every other time it was either a complete success of complete rejection, but this I dont know what to make of.

My brain isn't being cooperative at seeing the objective truth here, so I'd like you guys to give me your opinions. What do you think happened?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some girls are just different. What works with one many not necessary work with the other. You probably frightened her when you asked her to "come here..." and walking towards her like she is a prey. At times predator/prey tactics just don't work well...
 
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Bricka said:
So here goes. I tried making a move on this girl. We were in a room along, just playing a game, nothing sexual. At the end I decided that now would be the time for a kiss so I told her to 'come here' . She kept asking why while giggling/smiling a lot. I kept moving towards her while she was doing that, when i got within a foot of her she turned around and left saying "ok i'm going now" while giggling quite a bit.

This was at work btw.

What do you think happened?
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Are you kidding? What if she got caught and got fired?
 
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DonJuan11 said:
Are you kidding? What if she got caught and got fired?
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She's quitting. Her last day is in a few days. I'm not THAT irresponsible :p
Edit: And she handed in her resignation long before I ever thought of doing anything.
 
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