What does this mean??

[illmatic1005]

last week i was talking to a girl and she was joking around on how she wants to give me a lap dance next weekend(which is this weekend)

i ask her today.."how about that lapdance" and she says "no no. im a girl good now. Last week i wasnt but now i am a good girl"

why would a girl tell u she suddenly turned into a good girl?

How can you change it back where she wants to do physical stuff with u??

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Don't you see she is playing with you?

 

[illmatic1005]

I KNO....BUT WHAT SHOULD I DO?!

Shes the type of girl if where i ignore her or act like i dont want her, she will do the same to me

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...why would a girl tell u she suddenly turned into a good girl?

Her mood had changed. It's believed that girls/women do this often.

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How can you change it back where she wants to do physical stuff with u??

First of all you need to capitalize on her mood at that particular time (if you don't use it, you'll lose it). What were you doing to get her into that particular mood in the first place? What was her comfort level, was there kino, what had been the topics of conversation, had you been escalating?

 

[window]

challenge her in the moment..."are you sure you're capable of giving a good lapdance ? There's more to it than just grinding away...."

 

[Poonani Maker]

(if you don't use it, you'll lose it).

Great advice. Women are like nature, like the ocean, the weather. They change not only within a week's time, but even at a moment's notice time. You have to be the man that doesn't change and manipulate your environment to you. You change the weather, or the tv, or the temperature, not her. She's the wind. You're the stiff flagpole.

 

[cobrajoe]

Great advice. Women are like nature, like the ocean, the weather. They change not only within a week's time, but even at a moment's notice time. You have to be the man that doesn't change and manipulate your environment to you. You change the weather, or the tv, or the temperature, not her. She's the wind. You're the stiff flagpole.

That is amazing stuff right there.

I never realized it until now, whenever I start bending and making sacrifices for women, they lose interest fairly quickly.

As for women, they change extremely quickly (and some more than others). Just recently, I had a girl so mad at me she wanted to stop talking to me completely. Two days later, I had my hand down her shirt in a dark bedroom with the door open. I could complain, but why?

 

[BCOMusic]

Words don't matter to me really, I mean **** if she wants it, she wants it, but you will never truly know, until you try. So ask her out or something

Don't analyze her words or what you think she means, if shes sexual with you, then you know, if she isn't then you can take it from there,

the answer is in the kiss :rockon:

 

[Nexus Polaris]

Everybody already said it. A woman's word has an expiration date. It's not like a man's which is set in stone if he gives it. If he doesn't follow through, he loses his credibility.

But a woman's word is only good in the moment it's given. Her feelings might change 5 minutes later rendering her word null and void.