Awesome forum guys 
Been lurking for a while, and reading the DJ Bible.
Trying to work on my inner game, not be hung up on any one girl and become outcome independant, it's a real journey for me.
Also been experimenting with C&F, being dominant in interactions (as opposed to a general afc wussy who got chicks by 'luck' or by looks)
But I need a bit of help on this situation!
There is a girl i see quite a bit, we spend time together with friends and alone, as friends.
She displays IOI's, constant DDB, extended deep eye contact (7 or 8 seconds at a time) shy in my presence etc.
So then last week sometime she emails me about random stuff, and then ends with this
"i wanted to tell you that you are the sweetest guy i have ever met (and thats as nice as it gets from me) and im really glad that i have got to know and might even miss you when we leave" (the course we are both on)
Now from what I've learned, being called sweet aint a good thing, and initially it looks like directions straight to friend zone, but she is very shy, and would hardly ever say anything positive to a guy she was interested in (from what I've observed from her in the past)
So, she's either getting a pre emptive LJBF in, or possibly (but unlikely) clearing the way for me to approach.
I know some of the best guys on here say 'assume attraction' and I agree, but I've been kinda experimenting on her if you will, and I'm trying to get feedback on success level so I can learn more!
Thanks in advance guys.
Been lurking for a while, and reading the DJ Bible.
Trying to work on my inner game, not be hung up on any one girl and become outcome independant, it's a real journey for me.
Also been experimenting with C&F, being dominant in interactions (as opposed to a general afc wussy who got chicks by 'luck' or by looks)
But I need a bit of help on this situation!
There is a girl i see quite a bit, we spend time together with friends and alone, as friends.
She displays IOI's, constant DDB, extended deep eye contact (7 or 8 seconds at a time) shy in my presence etc.
So then last week sometime she emails me about random stuff, and then ends with this
"i wanted to tell you that you are the sweetest guy i have ever met (and thats as nice as it gets from me) and im really glad that i have got to know and might even miss you when we leave" (the course we are both on)
Now from what I've learned, being called sweet aint a good thing, and initially it looks like directions straight to friend zone, but she is very shy, and would hardly ever say anything positive to a guy she was interested in (from what I've observed from her in the past)
So, she's either getting a pre emptive LJBF in, or possibly (but unlikely) clearing the way for me to approach.
I know some of the best guys on here say 'assume attraction' and I agree, but I've been kinda experimenting on her if you will, and I'm trying to get feedback on success level so I can learn more!
Thanks in advance guys.