"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What does this mean? LJBF?

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Awesome forum guys :cool:

Been lurking for a while, and reading the DJ Bible.

Trying to work on my inner game, not be hung up on any one girl and become outcome independant, it's a real journey for me.

Also been experimenting with C&F, being dominant in interactions (as opposed to a general afc wussy who got chicks by 'luck' or by looks)

But I need a bit of help on this situation!

There is a girl i see quite a bit, we spend time together with friends and alone, as friends.

She displays IOI's, constant DDB, extended deep eye contact (7 or 8 seconds at a time) shy in my presence etc.

So then last week sometime she emails me about random stuff, and then ends with this

"i wanted to tell you that you are the sweetest guy i have ever met (and thats as nice as it gets from me) and im really glad that i have got to know and might even miss you when we leave" (the course we are both on)

Now from what I've learned, being called sweet aint a good thing, and initially it looks like directions straight to friend zone, but she is very shy, and would hardly ever say anything positive to a guy she was interested in (from what I've observed from her in the past)

So, she's either getting a pre emptive LJBF in, or possibly (but unlikely) clearing the way for me to approach.

I know some of the best guys on here say 'assume attraction' and I agree, but I've been kinda experimenting on her if you will, and I'm trying to get feedback on success level so I can learn more!

Thanks in advance guys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lets Just Bury Fossils
 
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Sounds to me like she digs you. She stated as much when she confessed to pushing her comfort level when saying "and thats as nice as it gets from me".
An easy way to cut through all of the nonsense would be to bend over and kiss her. Her reaction should tell you all you need to know.
 
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