"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What does this girl WANT??!?!!

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Blah...man, I am frustrated.

What do you do when you meet this girl, talk a lot, start liking her, she gives you HER number without you even asking, and calls you a million times a week, but...

...SHE'S GOT A BOYFRIEND!!???

Help! What do I do? I'm attracted to this girl, and I keep hearing about how her boyfriend is a complete pooch-screw. (He spent two hours with her on Valentine's Day playing video games and got her nothing whatsoever.) It's not cool to make a move on another man's girl...

...Right?



P.S. I'm making sure to stay out of the friends zone on this one, so I'm not sure if that's the case. She keeps making sexual innuendos and stuff and answered the door in a little bathrobe when I went to her house one time, so I'm getting the feel she's into me...but then I think about her boyfriend again. ::Slams head against desk repeatedly::
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's her boyfriend's responsability to keep her away from other guys, not yours. Make a move and see what happens. Let her dump his sorry ass if thats what it comes down to.
 
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I have to disagree somewhat on what blienk said, i can understand how its the bf fault if he doesnt really please the girl, but its the girls choice to do watever, just do watever she wants. And if her bf gets pissed its his own fault he cant do things right. I would just go over to her house or something and ask her about the situation and whats going on, and then u can probably make a move from there if shes willing.
 
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to me based on my experiences and other people's boy/girl friends are hardly ever permanent, so it isn't exactly a sin.. just frowned upon.

By what you have posted, to me it looks like on one hand you have a guy who appreciates his chick but doesn't need her and you are willing to give her everything you think she deserves. Chill out and find another chick
 
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Whoa, hold it. It's not that I've got a severe case of oneitus or anything with this chick. I'm just attracted to her and I wanted to hear your opinions about the boyfriend thing.

I came off a little desperate since I was just over her house tonight. LoL She is really freaking hot and she teases me... :eek:

Thanks for the advice, though. Anyone else willing to shed light on the subject?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well from what you said she is obviously into you. So I suggest you just ignore the fact that she has a b/f and keep doing whatever your doing to attract her. She will probably then dump her b/f and go with you. Also if her b/f isnt doing his part to attract her (playing vid games) then he doesnt deserve her anyway. Just make sure he isnt the type of chump that will threaten you for seeing his girl, but if she likes you then she may be able to talk him down.
 
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Dude, I'm not worried about this kid if he wants to fight. I seriously have about three times the muscle mass this guy has. (Football and working out every damn day.) I could break him in half over my knee. :rolleyes:

If he wants to threaten me, he can go right ahead. In fact, I hope he starts a fight with me. That would be fantastic.
 
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