"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What does this girl see in this guy???

ghost28

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there's this one chick (very good looking and I like her) that is dating this Pr!ck. He dresses like he's in Metallica. ya know the ragged jeans, west coast chopper t-shirts, fur thing going on by his chin, and is kinda rude. why doesnt this chick date guys who wears abercrombie or something like girls similar to her should do. this guy is just too outspoken. last week as a group we all went out bowling, and he parked in the handicap spot. We asked him why and he said "because it's closer." What an idiot.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by ghost28
there's this one chick (very good looking and I like her) that is dating this Pr!ck. He dresses like he's in Metallica. ya know the ragged jeans, west coast chopper t-shirts, fur thing going on by his chin, and is kinda rude. why doesnt this chick date guys who wears abercrombie or something like girls similar to her should do. this guy is just too outspoken. last week as a group we all went out bowling, and he parked in the handicap spot. We asked him why and he said "because it's closer." What an idiot.
Women are attracted to men that don't give a sh*t. Does it look like this guy cares about anything? You know the answer.

That handicap spot parking is funny. I do that on occasion.
 

Leuven

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It's sometimes very difficult.

I know this guy from work. He's 22, wears the clothes of his 8 year older brother ( the clothes he weared when he was 20 ), washed his hear probably ones a month, never go out. He told me he has never been to a pub, cinema, gym.

He is just like me informaticien, but he is really obsessed about it. He is sitting in front of his pc the whole f*cking night. But yet he got a hot girlfriend, and when she brokes up, he got a new hot one within a week ( he gets them from the internet )

I know it sounds kinda strange, but hell this, he must have something that attracts them, good for him
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FM 3321

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Originally posted by ghost28
there's this one chick (very good looking and I like her) that is dating this Pr!ck. He dresses like he's in Metallica. ya know the ragged jeans, west coast chopper t-shirts, fur thing going on by his chin, and is kinda rude. why doesnt this chick date guys who wears abercrombie or something like girls similar to her should do. this guy is just too outspoken. last week as a group we all went out bowling, and he parked in the handicap spot. We asked him why and he said "because it's closer." What an idiot.
Boy do you have alot to learn about female attraction. :eek:
 

organizedconfusion

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you will never understand and 99.9% of the guys on here
don't either and even if they did , they will NEVER be THAT guy-
because if they had it in them , they would'nt be online trying to
'fix' themselves just to get the approval of woman... guys like that
(the one you are talking about) don't need self help crap- their instincts
run their lives and they don't need to be 'told' what to do,they make their
own rules and decisions based on their inner masculine guidence...and if
they fail and make the wrong choice ..so be it, another lesson learned
and it makes one stronger...
the secret of the 'jerk'? there is NO secret... it dosen't matter, nothing matters but a good time and the moment...
 

flexion_

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This guy isn't a prick - just has lots of "man" qualities that she finds attractive.

Stop being jealuous and worry about your own life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gonzalo

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Originally posted by ghost28
He dresses like he's in Metallica. ya know the ragged jeans, west coast chopper t-shirts, fur thing going on by his chin, and is kinda rude.
Just add the word "because" in front of that sentence, and you have the answer to the question "why does she like him?".

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