"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What does this girl see in this guy???

ghost28

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there's this one chick (very good looking and I like her) that is dating this Pr!ck. He dresses like he's in Metallica. ya know the ragged jeans, west coast chopper t-shirts, fur thing going on by his chin, and is kinda rude. why doesnt this chick date guys who wears abercrombie or something like girls similar to her should do. this guy is just too outspoken. last week as a group we all went out bowling, and he parked in the handicap spot. We asked him why and he said "because it's closer." What an idiot.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by ghost28
there's this one chick (very good looking and I like her) that is dating this Pr!ck. He dresses like he's in Metallica. ya know the ragged jeans, west coast chopper t-shirts, fur thing going on by his chin, and is kinda rude. why doesnt this chick date guys who wears abercrombie or something like girls similar to her should do. this guy is just too outspoken. last week as a group we all went out bowling, and he parked in the handicap spot. We asked him why and he said "because it's closer." What an idiot.
Women are attracted to men that don't give a sh*t. Does it look like this guy cares about anything? You know the answer.

That handicap spot parking is funny. I do that on occasion.
 

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It's sometimes very difficult.

I know this guy from work. He's 22, wears the clothes of his 8 year older brother ( the clothes he weared when he was 20 ), washed his hear probably ones a month, never go out. He told me he has never been to a pub, cinema, gym.

He is just like me informaticien, but he is really obsessed about it. He is sitting in front of his pc the whole f*cking night. But yet he got a hot girlfriend, and when she brokes up, he got a new hot one within a week ( he gets them from the internet )

I know it sounds kinda strange, but hell this, he must have something that attracts them, good for him
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FM 3321

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Originally posted by ghost28
there's this one chick (very good looking and I like her) that is dating this Pr!ck. He dresses like he's in Metallica. ya know the ragged jeans, west coast chopper t-shirts, fur thing going on by his chin, and is kinda rude. why doesnt this chick date guys who wears abercrombie or something like girls similar to her should do. this guy is just too outspoken. last week as a group we all went out bowling, and he parked in the handicap spot. We asked him why and he said "because it's closer." What an idiot.
Boy do you have alot to learn about female attraction. :eek:
 

organizedconfusion

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you will never understand and 99.9% of the guys on here
don't either and even if they did , they will NEVER be THAT guy-
because if they had it in them , they would'nt be online trying to
'fix' themselves just to get the approval of woman... guys like that
(the one you are talking about) don't need self help crap- their instincts
run their lives and they don't need to be 'told' what to do,they make their
own rules and decisions based on their inner masculine guidence...and if
they fail and make the wrong choice ..so be it, another lesson learned
and it makes one stronger...
the secret of the 'jerk'? there is NO secret... it dosen't matter, nothing matters but a good time and the moment...
 

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This guy isn't a prick - just has lots of "man" qualities that she finds attractive.

Stop being jealuous and worry about your own life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gonzalo

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Originally posted by ghost28
He dresses like he's in Metallica. ya know the ragged jeans, west coast chopper t-shirts, fur thing going on by his chin, and is kinda rude.
Just add the word "because" in front of that sentence, and you have the answer to the question "why does she like him?".

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