there's this one chick (very good looking and I like her) that is dating this Pr!ck. He dresses like he's in Metallica. ya know the ragged jeans, west coast chopper t-shirts, fur thing going on by his chin, and is kinda rude. why doesnt this chick date guys who wears abercrombie or something like girls similar to her should do. this guy is just too outspoken. last week as a group we all went out bowling, and he parked in the handicap spot. We asked him why and he said "because it's closer." What an idiot.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What does this girl see in this guy???
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Women are attracted to men that don't give a sh*t. Does it look like this guy cares about anything? You know the answer.
That handicap spot parking is funny. I do that on occasion.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeealous
MightyMate
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Handdicap thing was dope. He seems cool evn he looks not Your type.
It's sometimes very difficult.
I know this guy from work. He's 22, wears the clothes of his 8 year older brother ( the clothes he weared when he was 20 ), washed his hear probably ones a month, never go out. He told me he has never been to a pub, cinema, gym.
He is just like me informaticien, but he is really obsessed about it. He is sitting in front of his pc the whole f*cking night. But yet he got a hot girlfriend, and when she brokes up, he got a new hot one within a week ( he gets them from the internet )
I know it sounds kinda strange, but hell this, he must have something that attracts them, good for him
I know this guy from work. He's 22, wears the clothes of his 8 year older brother ( the clothes he weared when he was 20 ), washed his hear probably ones a month, never go out. He told me he has never been to a pub, cinema, gym.
He is just like me informaticien, but he is really obsessed about it. He is sitting in front of his pc the whole f*cking night. But yet he got a hot girlfriend, and when she brokes up, he got a new hot one within a week ( he gets them from the internet )
I know it sounds kinda strange, but hell this, he must have something that attracts them, good for him
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
you will never understand and 99.9% of the guys on here
don't either and even if they did , they will NEVER be THAT guy-
because if they had it in them , they would'nt be online trying to
'fix' themselves just to get the approval of woman... guys like that
(the one you are talking about) don't need self help crap- their instincts
run their lives and they don't need to be 'told' what to do,they make their
own rules and decisions based on their inner masculine guidence...and if
they fail and make the wrong choice ..so be it, another lesson learned
and it makes one stronger...
the secret of the 'jerk'? there is NO secret... it dosen't matter, nothing matters but a good time and the moment...
don't either and even if they did , they will NEVER be THAT guy-
because if they had it in them , they would'nt be online trying to
'fix' themselves just to get the approval of woman... guys like that
(the one you are talking about) don't need self help crap- their instincts
run their lives and they don't need to be 'told' what to do,they make their
own rules and decisions based on their inner masculine guidence...and if
they fail and make the wrong choice ..so be it, another lesson learned
and it makes one stronger...
the secret of the 'jerk'? there is NO secret... it dosen't matter, nothing matters but a good time and the moment...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.