Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Danger said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible's response is excellent. Haven't had the time to read the rest. Django Unchained is still being criticized as being a racist movie. Although I doubt it. I mean even to think of a glimpse of it were true makes me sad. And I am sure it was much more dire than that, historically.Danger said:
:crackup:Burroughs said:
A white guy wrote the line in the movie....your own kind did this.Danger said:
Yeah, and black women are always portrayed as sassy, fat and ugly...whereas white women are always portrayed as beautiful, thin, and confident.Stagger Lee said:
" Your own kind " Wtf? Have you even seen him in interviews and any of his movies? The guys an odd self hating omega fetishist with a boner for *surprise, surprise* jews and blacks. Uma Thurman even LJBF'd this fvggin weirdo.bish0p said:
Weird, cause that's so out of character.bish0p said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
In the first place not true at all, as I metioned Michele Obama for one example is presented as a sophisticated princess. The irony is she really is sassy, ugly and fat bottomed like many black women tend to be.bish0p said:
Since it's always a simple black and white thing with guys like you...if he's white then he's your kind.( . )( . ) said:
Probably in your backwards ass incest ridden redneck part of the woods. But, not all black women are like that.( . )( . ) said:Weird, cause that's so out of character.
You claimed the media makes lack women look bad. Others claimed this very thread topic was about racism at the university dur.bish0p said:
You mad? NABWALT.bish0p said:
Did you just pull a feminist bait and switch? It's YOUR whining and continual victim status and blaming whitey for all your lifes woes we are calling out.bish0p said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No, that was a stupid response to your stupid comment to show that even if such a claim were true, it balances things out in the end. Still, it's not something I really believe. I've seen both ugly and and attractive black women in commercials.Stagger Lee said:
Uh, no..that would be you, as everything and anything you contribute to this forum is about black and white race relations.( . )( . ) said:
Again, that is you. You are whining about the poor white male and how everyone hates him. You're blaming black people for all your troubles.( . )( . ) said:
Excellent ! Then we are both in agreement this orca wasn't voted in by da evil racist whitey then.bish0p said:
( . )( . ) said:" Your own kind " Wtf? Have you even seen him in interviews and any of his movies? The guys an odd self hating omega fetishist with a boner for *surprise, surprise* jews and blacks. Uma Thurman even LJBF'd this fvggin weirdo.
He ain't my kind.
Weird, cause that's so out of character.
Tits,Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So your not a victim but you'll leave the window open just a little bit in case you are a victim? Waaaaaah whitey.bish0p said:
No, anything's possible. And believe it or not, racism does exist. Or is the world all sunshine and rainbows according to you?( . )( . ) said:So your not a victim but you'll leave the window open just a little bit in case you are a victim? Waaaaaah whitey.
Around and around we go.
Yes, which means I'm higher than you on the liberal ladder of who can shame who, and I'm here to tell you blaming whitey for everything from voting this ole miss pig in to a stray dog sh!tting on your front yard is no longer cool.bish0p said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.