You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Danger said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible's response is excellent. Haven't had the time to read the rest. Django Unchained is still being criticized as being a racist movie. Although I doubt it. I mean even to think of a glimpse of it were true makes me sad. And I am sure it was much more dire than that, historically.Danger said:
:crackup:Burroughs said:
A white guy wrote the line in the movie....your own kind did this.Danger said:
Yeah, and black women are always portrayed as sassy, fat and ugly...whereas white women are always portrayed as beautiful, thin, and confident.Stagger Lee said:
" Your own kind " Wtf? Have you even seen him in interviews and any of his movies? The guys an odd self hating omega fetishist with a boner for *surprise, surprise* jews and blacks. Uma Thurman even LJBF'd this fvggin weirdo.bish0p said:
Weird, cause that's so out of character.bish0p said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
In the first place not true at all, as I metioned Michele Obama for one example is presented as a sophisticated princess. The irony is she really is sassy, ugly and fat bottomed like many black women tend to be.bish0p said:
Since it's always a simple black and white thing with guys like you...if he's white then he's your kind.( . )( . ) said:
Probably in your backwards ass incest ridden redneck part of the woods. But, not all black women are like that.( . )( . ) said:Weird, cause that's so out of character.
You claimed the media makes lack women look bad. Others claimed this very thread topic was about racism at the university dur.bish0p said:
You mad? NABWALT.bish0p said:
Did you just pull a feminist bait and switch? It's YOUR whining and continual victim status and blaming whitey for all your lifes woes we are calling out.bish0p said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No, that was a stupid response to your stupid comment to show that even if such a claim were true, it balances things out in the end. Still, it's not something I really believe. I've seen both ugly and and attractive black women in commercials.Stagger Lee said:
Uh, no..that would be you, as everything and anything you contribute to this forum is about black and white race relations.( . )( . ) said:
Again, that is you. You are whining about the poor white male and how everyone hates him. You're blaming black people for all your troubles.( . )( . ) said:
Excellent ! Then we are both in agreement this orca wasn't voted in by da evil racist whitey then.bish0p said:
( . )( . ) said:" Your own kind " Wtf? Have you even seen him in interviews and any of his movies? The guys an odd self hating omega fetishist with a boner for *surprise, surprise* jews and blacks. Uma Thurman even LJBF'd this fvggin weirdo.
He ain't my kind.
Weird, cause that's so out of character.
Tits,Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So your not a victim but you'll leave the window open just a little bit in case you are a victim? Waaaaaah whitey.bish0p said:
No, anything's possible. And believe it or not, racism does exist. Or is the world all sunshine and rainbows according to you?( . )( . ) said:So your not a victim but you'll leave the window open just a little bit in case you are a victim? Waaaaaah whitey.
Around and around we go.
Yes, which means I'm higher than you on the liberal ladder of who can shame who, and I'm here to tell you blaming whitey for everything from voting this ole miss pig in to a stray dog sh!tting on your front yard is no longer cool.bish0p said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.