What does "Take Charge" mean?

[Essa Rios]

I've been on 2 dates with this girl and so far things are going well. She
shows strong signs that she's digging me and all that. On our last date she
mentions that she loves guys who "take charge" plus she also mention this
again when she wrote me an email and then put "hint. hint".

Please help me as i don't really know what she means by this. Does she want
me to be more manly and make plans for out dates or what???
I have yet to make a move on her (kiss, hold hands) Please help, thanks!

 

[Chromeo]

I have yet to make a move on her (kiss, hold hands) Please help, thanks!

take charge and make a move, thats what she means

 

[Galactus]

Two dates and you haven't made a move on her? Things are not going well.

"Take charge" means make your move. Yes, she wants you to be more manly.

Go get it.

 

[Atom Smasher]

You have this one in the bag.

Taking charge means two things:

1) Leading... Take her by the hand and pull her here & there to different locations. Plan your dates and tell here where you're going and what you're doing. She will love all this.

2) Make your move... The other guys have covered this.

 

[jtlancer]

She doesn't want to think. She want to f-e-e-l.
Pull the trigger.

 

[PlayCold]

Pull the trigger.

DON'T KILL HER!

 

[initiatorhater06]

it means initiate, lead
"Life is a labyrinth the only way out of which is death"

 

[zekko]

She wants sex and she wants you to make it happen.

 

[5string]

This is so clear to me. Get her in the house tell her to turn around and bend over. Pull her panties down and follow through. It'll work. That's what she wants.

 

[Tesl]

She wants sex and she wants you to make it happen.

Spot on.

That the OP doesn't see this when she actually wrote "hint hint" makes me wonder about how some guys ever manage to get laid, to be honest. Unbelievable.

 

[joe henny]

Shes asking you to insert your penis into her vagina. Duh.

 

[zekko]

This is so clear to me. Get her in the house tell her to turn around and bend over. Pull her panties down and follow through. It'll work. That's what she wants.

But you might want to try some foreplay first.

 

[EA Gold]

Taking charge basically directing the show. Where to go, what to do, how to do it. Your the leader, your supposed to know what's best for her.

Basically acting like the father to her and treating her like a child, its either your way or the highway. You have to show strength, courage and confidence to pull this off though.

 

[DanelMadr]

Sitting on the grass by the river. She reads him some poetry....'And put your youth in his palms'...She closes the book, cheesy music starts playing and camera rolls closer....he just sits there looking at her....cheesy music stops. So she repeats ' And put your youth in his palms'. And he goes 'OH!' and cheesy music resumes as he puts his hat off and leans to kiss her and grab her boob.
(The Man of The East movie about three desperados making a man out of a Nice Guy...very inspiring)

After this scene he finally let them teach him how to become a man in order to keep her. One of the bandits comments>"I've heard about a girl who fell in love because a man kicked about her. But I've never heard a girl falling in love because of a book."

 

[zekko]

That the OP doesn't see this when she actually wrote "hint hint" makes me wonder about how some guys ever manage to get laid, to be honest. Unbelievable.

Yeah, I'm pretty sure she is specifically talking about sex.
She is complaining that he hasn't made a move on her yet.

 

[initiatorhater06]

and while women don't do ****