"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what does she want?

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This girl I grew up with came around on sunday for old timers day lol and I gave her my number because she said she aint have nothin to do. So we drink with her and her friends and everything seems cool. Now I have never tried to get at her so I was assuming she was after some of my other friends. The thing is since then she has been calling me just to talk about stuff and Im wondering why? She calls me today and tells me she cut her finger.......she calls and tells me why she argued with another chick. I mean i regret giving my number to her if she aint tryin let me smash what she keep callin for talking bout sh!t I could care less bout?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by MarkHammond
This girl I grew up with came around on sunday for old timers day lol and I gave her my number because she said she aint have nothin to do. So we drink with her and her friends and everything seems cool. Now I have never tried to get at her so I was assuming she was after some of my other friends. The thing is since then she has been calling me just to talk about stuff and Im wondering why? She calls me today and tells me she cut her finger.......she calls and tells me why she argued with another chick. I mean i regret giving my number to her if she aint tryin let me smash what she keep callin for talking bout sh!t I could care less bout?
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I fear that you are in the friend zone, either act disinterested so she tries to win your approval and then u can work ur game or next her.

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Markhammond may be in the freindszone, but it doesn't mean he should ignore her. If you don't have the time to listen to her whines, tune her out or just get off the phone.
 
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lol yea but how I get in that zone? I wasnt trying to get at her in the first place she isnt my type. Was I palced in the friendzone by default? anyway Ill just be short on the phone when she call cause this sh!t is annoying
 
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she either likes you and wants excuses to talk to you or she thinks you are long lost pals and wants you to be her best friend.

soon you will be able to tell which it is, figure out if you like that and if you dont, let her know in a caring way.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Break into her house when shes sleeping get naked stand over her and start masturbating. When she wakes up if she wants you she will just go along with it if she doesnt you will get arrested. Its a fool proof way of figuring out if she likes you.

Ninja out
 
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i was trying to hook her up with one of my boys and she sounded like she was interested. She said we should come out to her crib in staten island and chill one day. I dont think she likes me but who knows? its just funny when she calls today and tells me bout her stitches and her hand and Im sitting there not knowing what to say
 
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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Break into her house when shes sleeping get naked stand over her and start masturbating. When she wakes up if she wants you she will just go along with it if she doesnt you will get arrested. Its a fool proof way of figuring out if she likes you.

Ninja out
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LOL u always have these crazy responses


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