"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what does she want?

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This girl I grew up with came around on sunday for old timers day lol and I gave her my number because she said she aint have nothin to do. So we drink with her and her friends and everything seems cool. Now I have never tried to get at her so I was assuming she was after some of my other friends. The thing is since then she has been calling me just to talk about stuff and Im wondering why? She calls me today and tells me she cut her finger.......she calls and tells me why she argued with another chick. I mean i regret giving my number to her if she aint tryin let me smash what she keep callin for talking bout sh!t I could care less bout?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by MarkHammond
This girl I grew up with came around on sunday for old timers day lol and I gave her my number because she said she aint have nothin to do. So we drink with her and her friends and everything seems cool. Now I have never tried to get at her so I was assuming she was after some of my other friends. The thing is since then she has been calling me just to talk about stuff and Im wondering why? She calls me today and tells me she cut her finger.......she calls and tells me why she argued with another chick. I mean i regret giving my number to her if she aint tryin let me smash what she keep callin for talking bout sh!t I could care less bout?

I fear that you are in the friend zone, either act disinterested so she tries to win your approval and then u can work ur game or next her.

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Markhammond may be in the freindszone, but it doesn't mean he should ignore her. If you don't have the time to listen to her whines, tune her out or just get off the phone.
 

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lol yea but how I get in that zone? I wasnt trying to get at her in the first place she isnt my type. Was I palced in the friendzone by default? anyway Ill just be short on the phone when she call cause this sh!t is annoying
 

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she either likes you and wants excuses to talk to you or she thinks you are long lost pals and wants you to be her best friend.

soon you will be able to tell which it is, figure out if you like that and if you dont, let her know in a caring way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Break into her house when shes sleeping get naked stand over her and start masturbating. When she wakes up if she wants you she will just go along with it if she doesnt you will get arrested. Its a fool proof way of figuring out if she likes you.

Ninja out
 

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i was trying to hook her up with one of my boys and she sounded like she was interested. She said we should come out to her crib in staten island and chill one day. I dont think she likes me but who knows? its just funny when she calls today and tells me bout her stitches and her hand and Im sitting there not knowing what to say
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Break into her house when shes sleeping get naked stand over her and start masturbating. When she wakes up if she wants you she will just go along with it if she doesnt you will get arrested. Its a fool proof way of figuring out if she likes you.

Ninja out
LOL u always have these crazy responses


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