"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What does one do when they are not sure about a lady after a first meet?

RickTheToad

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I met this other women tonight. She seemed interested in me, and the conversation was very fluid. After 2.5 hours of a couple of beers and two burgers, we called it a night. She was tired and so was I. She offered to split, I accepted. I prefer women with a bit more ass and boobs. Her face was a bit different, but that could just be because she wasn't overly dressed up. The other lady in my other thread, I am very attracted too. Now, I did not go for a kiss, we just hugged and went our separate ways since I was a block a way parked, she was not far. I do not really know if she was interested, as I hadn't received an another text this night. We were talking about a specific topic which I actually did some Youtube videos on, so she had actually pulled them up on youtube.

Anyways, how does one handle this situation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Spidah

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Listen my man. I've got a pretty good rule for keeping abundance high and stress low. That rule is treat all women exactly the same.

Doesn't matter how hot she is or how interested she is. I treat'em all the same. The ones who get with my program keep my attention and the ones who don't get DROPPED.

Easy peasy.
 

Tilex

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If I'm not touching parts of her body and getting a kiss on the first date, I automatically know she's going to ghost me afterwards.
I've seen this pattern way too many times.
One thing I learned in my life is a hug doesn't go very far.
There has to be more investment from her.
 

R.U.G.

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Me? Sit back and wait. Just because either didn't go for a kiss doesn't mean it was bad. However, it seems you weren't in to her in the first place.
 
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