"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What does one do when they are not sure about a lady after a first meet?

RickTheToad

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I met this other women tonight. She seemed interested in me, and the conversation was very fluid. After 2.5 hours of a couple of beers and two burgers, we called it a night. She was tired and so was I. She offered to split, I accepted. I prefer women with a bit more ass and boobs. Her face was a bit different, but that could just be because she wasn't overly dressed up. The other lady in my other thread, I am very attracted too. Now, I did not go for a kiss, we just hugged and went our separate ways since I was a block a way parked, she was not far. I do not really know if she was interested, as I hadn't received an another text this night. We were talking about a specific topic which I actually did some Youtube videos on, so she had actually pulled them up on youtube.

Anyways, how does one handle this situation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Listen my man. I've got a pretty good rule for keeping abundance high and stress low. That rule is treat all women exactly the same.

Doesn't matter how hot she is or how interested she is. I treat'em all the same. The ones who get with my program keep my attention and the ones who don't get DROPPED.

Easy peasy.
 

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If I'm not touching parts of her body and getting a kiss on the first date, I automatically know she's going to ghost me afterwards.
I've seen this pattern way too many times.
One thing I learned in my life is a hug doesn't go very far.
There has to be more investment from her.
 

R.U.G.

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Me? Sit back and wait. Just because either didn't go for a kiss doesn't mean it was bad. However, it seems you weren't in to her in the first place.
 
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