"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What does "lets take things slow" mean?

shark

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She is my girlfriend of just about 1 week. She tells me she REALLY likes me and trusts me. It is apparent and shes sensitve to EVERYTHING i do or say. She calls me and touches me and all.

we kiss and touch, but as for the other stuff (bj's, and all that stuff) idk what the deal is. Is there a way to find out? Do I wait untill we drink to talk about it so were loosend up?

I use DJ techniques alot, but im no DJ when it comes to this i guess

EDIT--is it OK to ask what she meant by taking things slow or not?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bobbles

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Chill, it's only been a week. In my experience there are many girls out there who take a long time to feel comfortable with going further. If you like her, hang in there. If you just want a quick lay then don't.
 

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"lets take things slow" means that you haven't turned her on enough yet.
 

shark

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yeah i guess your right...i guess i just want to see some sort of time table or idea without sounding too perverted.

i dont think i need further advice then to just chill

thanks
 

LJC

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It means you aint gettin none of that until I break you down into a chump that promises me the moon. But by then I'll realize how much of a turn off that is and will run off with a completely opposite kind of guy....probibly someone who drinks too much and makes fun of me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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