"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What does "lets take things slow" mean?

shark

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She is my girlfriend of just about 1 week. She tells me she REALLY likes me and trusts me. It is apparent and shes sensitve to EVERYTHING i do or say. She calls me and touches me and all.

we kiss and touch, but as for the other stuff (bj's, and all that stuff) idk what the deal is. Is there a way to find out? Do I wait untill we drink to talk about it so were loosend up?

I use DJ techniques alot, but im no DJ when it comes to this i guess

EDIT--is it OK to ask what she meant by taking things slow or not?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chill, it's only been a week. In my experience there are many girls out there who take a long time to feel comfortable with going further. If you like her, hang in there. If you just want a quick lay then don't.
 

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"lets take things slow" means that you haven't turned her on enough yet.
 

shark

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yeah i guess your right...i guess i just want to see some sort of time table or idea without sounding too perverted.

i dont think i need further advice then to just chill

thanks
 

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It means you aint gettin none of that until I break you down into a chump that promises me the moon. But by then I'll realize how much of a turn off that is and will run off with a completely opposite kind of guy....probibly someone who drinks too much and makes fun of me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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