"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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everblur

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When a girl says good things about you continuously? Like wow....I like your hair.....then...I like your shirt....you look good.....and lastly.....you smell really good....what do you use? And we're not even dating :confused: . She's actually my childhood friend in fact. Of course I answered using C&F statements and never even thanked her for the compliments!! Is this a test?

Another Q.....what do you do when you're stuck a girl who has low self esteem and is stuck to you even if you're extra "nice"? I thought being nice pisses girls off :mad: !!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Woah! Relax! If a girl complements you like that she is into you, big time. Wait until she starts wearing things you wear around like your jacket or hat or something, and you'll see what I mean.

You really don't have to say much back to those statements. If you are going to say thank you back to her say it once and only once, and if she keeps repeating them then use it as an opporunity to kino or get closer.

There are diffrent definitions of nice. Nice could mean something as simple as people meerly enjoying your presence or it can mean that you are a supplicating wuss. It just depends on context.

If you don't like her tell her "I see you as a sister," or "Woah! You act just like my sister!" Do that enough times she will get the hint.
 

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Woah....ok well she's not my type anyway. I'll use her for practice ;). Thanks for the replies.

Regarding the second Q, this is a different girl by the way, she's an ex who is sorta back in a r/s with me. To cut the long story short....she's just not for me. So other than telling her she's just like a sis, what else is there I can do? Oh and what's kino?
 

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Originally posted by everblur
Woah....ok well she's not my type anyway. I'll use her for practice ;). Thanks for the replies.

Regarding the second Q, this is a different girl by the way, she's an ex who is sorta back in a r/s with me. To cut the long story short....she's just not for me. So other than telling her she's just like a sis, what else is there I can do? Oh and what's kino?
Well, that best way that she will understand is to just say she is like your sister, but if you don't let her know somehow it could appear that you are leading her on, which is something you don't want to do if you like the honest gentleman image.

Kino is kinesthetics, it's the art of touching to break barriers so someone can feel comfortable in your personal space, and vice versa.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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