"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What does it mean when she says...
- Thread starter vato
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
muzicfreak2k3
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Geez you sound just like my ex-girlfriend !!vato said:"You have no feelings. You've probably never been hurt
Haha but seriously though... i think she actually did say this to me. Anyways, most likely she either got dumped/cheated on after a (what she considers) long term / serious relationship recently before she met you. As weird as it is... you need to make sure that whatever you do with this girl, that she treats you as YOU, and not another guy tryna screw her over.
How to re-frame.... hmm.... I guess it would depend what you're trying to do with this girl... make her your gf / or 1-night stand.
Try
"Yup... well I used to have a heart but it took up too much space so i sold it on Ebay."
or maybe "Well now your just assuming... and you know what happens when you assume."
But me personally... I'd just ignore that statement and steer the conversation in a another direction completely.
Good luck !
But that was a couple months back. So that might be the reason for her saying what she said. I guess I want her as a gf because she's a "wifey".
Anyways thanks for the answer but I replied: "what do you mean no feelings? I cried when mufasa died in lion king.."