"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What does it mean when she says...
- Thread starter vato
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
muzicfreak2k3
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Geez you sound just like my ex-girlfriend !!vato said:"You have no feelings. You've probably never been hurt
Haha but seriously though... i think she actually did say this to me. Anyways, most likely she either got dumped/cheated on after a (what she considers) long term / serious relationship recently before she met you. As weird as it is... you need to make sure that whatever you do with this girl, that she treats you as YOU, and not another guy tryna screw her over.
How to re-frame.... hmm.... I guess it would depend what you're trying to do with this girl... make her your gf / or 1-night stand.
Try
"Yup... well I used to have a heart but it took up too much space so i sold it on Ebay."
or maybe "Well now your just assuming... and you know what happens when you assume."
But me personally... I'd just ignore that statement and steer the conversation in a another direction completely.
Good luck !
But that was a couple months back. So that might be the reason for her saying what she said. I guess I want her as a gf because she's a "wifey".
Anyways thanks for the answer but I replied: "what do you mean no feelings? I cried when mufasa died in lion king.."