"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What does it mean when a girls says these things

TheGambino

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Some things my plate said during our first date last friday. I actually know her for years but bareley saw her the last 2 years and never went out for a date.

*´Shes flirting with you, you see that?´

*´Shes pretty what do you think?´

*´What do you think about her?´

*´I think youre a trusty male´

It could be that she means exactley what she says but maybe theres more, any thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Reckoning

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She wants to know how you see other girls and what you think of them to get a general idea what you think of her. She's "testing the waters", and obviously has some interest in you, otherwise she wouldn't be asking. Unless you guys had nothing else to talk about at the moment.
 

In2theGame

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TheGambino said:
Some things my plate said during our first date last friday. I actually know her for years but bareley saw her the last 2 years and never went out for a date.

*´Shes flirting with you, you see that?´= That B*tch over there is flirting with you right in front of me. She must think that you would like her over me.

*´Shes pretty what do you think?´= You think that she's better than me?

*´What do you think about her?´= Tell me.... Do you think shes better than me? Do you find her prettier than me?

*´I think youre a trusty male´ = Eh your too pvssy to do anything anyway it seems lol

It could be that she means exactley what she says but maybe theres more, any thoughts?
Responses in bold of what i think
 

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this should be fun

*´Shes flirting with you, you see that?´ - girl getting p1ssed another girl is flirting/looking at you

*´Shes pretty what do you think?´ - girl trying to see if your into her.

*´What do you think about her?´ - ditto

*´I think youre a trusty male´ - your a pvssy
 

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These questions came out because she was not sure you guys were on a date. These were to gauge your relative interest in her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheGambino

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The girl she was talking about was actually flirting with me. saying this so I can make the situation more clear for you guys
 
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