"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What does it mean when a girls says these things

TheGambino

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Some things my plate said during our first date last friday. I actually know her for years but bareley saw her the last 2 years and never went out for a date.

*´Shes flirting with you, you see that?´

*´Shes pretty what do you think?´

*´What do you think about her?´

*´I think youre a trusty male´

It could be that she means exactley what she says but maybe theres more, any thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She wants to know how you see other girls and what you think of them to get a general idea what you think of her. She's "testing the waters", and obviously has some interest in you, otherwise she wouldn't be asking. Unless you guys had nothing else to talk about at the moment.
 
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TheGambino said:
Some things my plate said during our first date last friday. I actually know her for years but bareley saw her the last 2 years and never went out for a date.

*´Shes flirting with you, you see that?´= That B*tch over there is flirting with you right in front of me. She must think that you would like her over me.

*´Shes pretty what do you think?´= You think that she's better than me?

*´What do you think about her?´= Tell me.... Do you think shes better than me? Do you find her prettier than me?

*´I think youre a trusty male´ = Eh your too pvssy to do anything anyway it seems lol

It could be that she means exactley what she says but maybe theres more, any thoughts?
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this should be fun

*´Shes flirting with you, you see that?´ - girl getting p1ssed another girl is flirting/looking at you

*´Shes pretty what do you think?´ - girl trying to see if your into her.

*´What do you think about her?´ - ditto

*´I think youre a trusty male´ - your a pvssy
 
RangerMIke

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These questions came out because she was not sure you guys were on a date. These were to gauge your relative interest in her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheGambino

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The girl she was talking about was actually flirting with me. saying this so I can make the situation more clear for you guys
 
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