"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What does it mean when a girls says these things

TheGambino

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Some things my plate said during our first date last friday. I actually know her for years but bareley saw her the last 2 years and never went out for a date.

*´Shes flirting with you, you see that?´

*´Shes pretty what do you think?´

*´What do you think about her?´

*´I think youre a trusty male´

It could be that she means exactley what she says but maybe theres more, any thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Reckoning

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She wants to know how you see other girls and what you think of them to get a general idea what you think of her. She's "testing the waters", and obviously has some interest in you, otherwise she wouldn't be asking. Unless you guys had nothing else to talk about at the moment.
 

In2theGame

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TheGambino said:
Some things my plate said during our first date last friday. I actually know her for years but bareley saw her the last 2 years and never went out for a date.

*´Shes flirting with you, you see that?´= That B*tch over there is flirting with you right in front of me. She must think that you would like her over me.

*´Shes pretty what do you think?´= You think that she's better than me?

*´What do you think about her?´= Tell me.... Do you think shes better than me? Do you find her prettier than me?

*´I think youre a trusty male´ = Eh your too pvssy to do anything anyway it seems lol

It could be that she means exactley what she says but maybe theres more, any thoughts?
Responses in bold of what i think
 

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this should be fun

*´Shes flirting with you, you see that?´ - girl getting p1ssed another girl is flirting/looking at you

*´Shes pretty what do you think?´ - girl trying to see if your into her.

*´What do you think about her?´ - ditto

*´I think youre a trusty male´ - your a pvssy
 

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These questions came out because she was not sure you guys were on a date. These were to gauge your relative interest in her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheGambino

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The girl she was talking about was actually flirting with me. saying this so I can make the situation more clear for you guys
 
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