I've had sex with this girl a couple of times. We had sex a little bit ago. Then we went a week with no contact. I decided to initiate and called her up. We did hang out and then we had sex. The next day I kind of had blue balls and was bored so I called her again at night. I went over and we had sex again. It's been two days with no contact. This girl never calls me but if I call her she answers and says yes to anything I ask her to do. I am starting to like her but don't want to come off as needy. Anyone else been in a similar situation? Btw she is not shy whatsoever.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What does it mean when a girl does not initiate contact after sex?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
some guys will say don't look a gift horse in the mouth.
I on the other hand cannot stand not knowing the score in a situation like this.
wait a few days, call her, screw her. then just turn over in bed and say "Just to be clear, i want ______________"
Whether that be ****buddies, friends with benefits, or relationship.
Otherwise i feel drama can erupt at any given moment.
I on the other hand cannot stand not knowing the score in a situation like this.
wait a few days, call her, screw her. then just turn over in bed and say "Just to be clear, i want ______________"
Whether that be ****buddies, friends with benefits, or relationship.
Otherwise i feel drama can erupt at any given moment.