"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What does it mean when a girl does not initiate contact after sex?

MKS82

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I've had sex with this girl a couple of times. We had sex a little bit ago. Then we went a week with no contact. I decided to initiate and called her up. We did hang out and then we had sex. The next day I kind of had blue balls and was bored so I called her again at night. I went over and we had sex again. It's been two days with no contact. This girl never calls me but if I call her she answers and says yes to anything I ask her to do. I am starting to like her but don't want to come off as needy. Anyone else been in a similar situation? Btw she is not shy whatsoever.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Aragon034

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some guys will say don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

I on the other hand cannot stand not knowing the score in a situation like this.

wait a few days, call her, screw her. then just turn over in bed and say "Just to be clear, i want ______________"

Whether that be ****buddies, friends with benefits, or relationship.

Otherwise i feel drama can erupt at any given moment.
 

lordson

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well, some girls just liked to be the one recieving the calls

i know my girlfriend is like that

if your relationship with her is fine, then theres nothing to worry about

you are overanylising this
 
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