I've had sex with this girl a couple of times. We had sex a little bit ago. Then we went a week with no contact. I decided to initiate and called her up. We did hang out and then we had sex. The next day I kind of had blue balls and was bored so I called her again at night. I went over and we had sex again. It's been two days with no contact. This girl never calls me but if I call her she answers and says yes to anything I ask her to do. I am starting to like her but don't want to come off as needy. Anyone else been in a similar situation? Btw she is not shy whatsoever.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What does it mean when a girl does not initiate contact after sex?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
some guys will say don't look a gift horse in the mouth.
I on the other hand cannot stand not knowing the score in a situation like this.
wait a few days, call her, screw her. then just turn over in bed and say "Just to be clear, i want ______________"
Whether that be ****buddies, friends with benefits, or relationship.
Otherwise i feel drama can erupt at any given moment.
I on the other hand cannot stand not knowing the score in a situation like this.
wait a few days, call her, screw her. then just turn over in bed and say "Just to be clear, i want ______________"
Whether that be ****buddies, friends with benefits, or relationship.
Otherwise i feel drama can erupt at any given moment.