"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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what does it mean when a girl calls a guy 'bff'?

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garruk

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so my sister went to a rave the other day. i looked her up on facebook this morning (overprotective big brother) and a guy she obviously met at the rave is like "hey bff ahahah i just read what you put yourself down as on my phone.. it says "asdfasdf your bff :)" whats up?"

my sister is 20 if that matters.

what do you guys think? this whole bff thing is pretty common right now in my age group (18-22). at parties i often see girls call guys bff that they just met while playing beerpong together or soemthing.

anyways, just wanted your guy's input. i hate the idea of people gaming my sister rofl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chicks are retarded sometimes. Don't read into their words as much as their actions.
 
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You can't interpret from just words. It can be said in a purely friendly/platonic manner or it can be said flirtatiously. You will have to investigate further if you want to determine the meaning in this particular context.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she put her number in his phone as "sister, your bff"

probably to say "don't call me asking me on a date"
 
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hmm thanks alot guys. made me feel alot better heh.
 
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garruk

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though you guys are def right, i shouldnt be reading so much into words
 
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but if he got her number even if she put bff, he's probably still gonna try to ask her out
 
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