"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what does it mean when a girl calls a guy 'bff'?

garruk

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so my sister went to a rave the other day. i looked her up on facebook this morning (overprotective big brother) and a guy she obviously met at the rave is like "hey bff ahahah i just read what you put yourself down as on my phone.. it says "asdfasdf your bff :)" whats up?"

my sister is 20 if that matters.

what do you guys think? this whole bff thing is pretty common right now in my age group (18-22). at parties i often see girls call guys bff that they just met while playing beerpong together or soemthing.

anyways, just wanted your guy's input. i hate the idea of people gaming my sister rofl.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alle_Gory

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Chicks are retarded sometimes. Don't read into their words as much as their actions.
 

Lexington

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You can't interpret from just words. It can be said in a purely friendly/platonic manner or it can be said flirtatiously. You will have to investigate further if you want to determine the meaning in this particular context.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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iliketennis

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she put her number in his phone as "sister, your bff"

probably to say "don't call me asking me on a date"
 

garruk

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hmm thanks alot guys. made me feel alot better heh.
 

garruk

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though you guys are def right, i shouldnt be reading so much into words
 

omega05

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but if he got her number even if she put bff, he's probably still gonna try to ask her out
 
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