You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I understand what your saying, but how can you tell if she's playing hard to get or just not intetested? We can't read their mind, i get reject alot and i can't even tell half the time if i've been blown off because she wasn't interested or she's just playing hard to get. What do you do if you know for sure she's interested in you, but you still get turn down for dates?Originally posted by salthepal
in a few words, when a girl is playing hard to get she is trying to present a challenge to you, just like evryone here tells u to do to the girls ..
she wants you to pant after her, it doesn't mean she's not interested .. more likely is that she wants to evaluate whether ur interested enough for her to agree to date you ..
but boy is she wrong, coz ur a dj and u know how to bust her nuts and tease her and MAKE HER PANT AFTER YOU, not the other way round ...
keep that in mind and you will succeed .. hopefully
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.