“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what does it mean if she keeps asking me about my love life?

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The other day I was talking to a girl that I'm somewhat interested in. During the convo, she asked me why I broke up with my ex, and if I want a girlfriend now. Then out of nowhere she mentioned how she kinda likes some guy. I didn't really say anything and changed the topic soon after. Today I talked to her again and I told her I had plans to hang out with a girl-friend this weekend. Right away she asked me if I like the girl. What is all this supposed to mean?
 

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She says: Why did you break up?
Translation: What stupid crap do you pull and what do I have to watch out for?

She says: Do you want a girlfriend?
Translation: Are you looking for a relationship or are you a player?

She says: I kinda like some guy.
Translation: I'm desirable and wanted by other men

She says: Do you like that girl?
Translation: Is she your girlfriend? How hard do I have to work to make you mine?
 

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WaterTiger said:
She says: Why did you break up?
Translation: What stupid crap do you pull and what do I have to watch out for?

She says: Do you want a girlfriend?
Translation: Are you looking for a relationship or are you a player?

She says: I kinda like some guy.
Translation: I'm desirable and wanted by other men

She says: Do you like that girl?
Translation: Is she your girlfriend? How hard do I have to work to make you mine?
I agree with Water T. X 4

OH, and BTW, she would not be asking these questions unless she was interested in you as a potential B/f.
Your move.
 

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WaterTiger said:
She says: Why did you break up?
Translation: What stupid crap do you pull and what do I have to watch out for?

She says: Do you want a girlfriend?
Translation: Are you looking for a relationship or are you a player?

She says: I kinda like some guy.
Translation: I'm desirable and wanted by other men

She says: Do you like that girl?
Translation: Is she your girlfriend? How hard do I have to work to make you mine?
Seriously?

If so, women are insane.

That makes me feel like I need to have a listening device on me and a team in a van out back telling me what she is really saying.

BTW what is the proper way to answer those questions?
 

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She says: Why did you break up?
Translation: What stupid crap do you pull and what do I have to watch out for?
Answer: I'm not sure why.

She says: Do you want a girlfriend?
Translation: Are you looking for a relationship or are you a player?
Answer: I'm not sure. I think relationships just happen naturally. If it happens, it happens.

She says: I kinda like some guy.
Translation: I'm desirable and wanted by other men
Answer: Good luck. Maybe you should go for him.

She says: Do you like that girl?
Translation: Is she your girlfriend? How hard do I have to work to make you mine?
Answer: Yeah, I like her. She is a lot of fun to hang out with sometimes.
 

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Donnie Darko said:
Answer: I'm not sure why.
this would imply you got dumped by her (if u dumped her you would know the reason!), thus it devaluates you...= you less desirable

Donnie Darko said:
Answer: I'm not sure why.

Answer: I'm not sure. I think relationships just happen naturally. If it happens, it happens.

Answer: Good luck. Maybe you should go for him.

Answer: Yeah, I like her. She is a lot of fun to hang out with sometimes.
these arnt exactly great answers.. they seem kinda confromtational, not really funny/****y and not DHV there (which you could get in to these answers)
 

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kingsam said:
this would imply you got dumped by her (if u dumped her you would know the reason!), thus it devaluates you...= you less desirable

these arnt exactly great answers.. they seem kinda confromtational, not really funny/****y and not DHV there (which you could get in to these answers)
Thanks for the feedback. I just recently read all of Pook's 10 complied posts on Anti-Dump's the machine and that probably was pretty influential in my thinking for those responses. For me those responses are far better than what I would have said in the past where I would have probably given long truthful AFC answers. Your points about displaying high value and being funny/****y are good though and I'll consider that more in the future.
 

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WaterTiger said:
She says: Why did you break up?
Translation: What stupid crap do you pull and what do I have to watch out for?

She says: Do you want a girlfriend?
Translation: Are you looking for a relationship or are you a player?

She says: I kinda like some guy.
Translation: I'm desirable and wanted by other men

She says: Do you like that girl?
Translation: Is she your girlfriend? How hard do I have to work to make you mine?
How the hell did you figure this sh*t out? +1 rep for you!

OP, she's interested in you.
 
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