The other day I was talking to a girl that I'm somewhat interested in. During the convo, she asked me why I broke up with my ex, and if I want a girlfriend now. Then out of nowhere she mentioned how she kinda likes some guy. I didn't really say anything and changed the topic soon after. Today I talked to her again and I told her I had plans to hang out with a girl-friend this weekend. Right away she asked me if I like the girl. What is all this supposed to mean?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
what does it mean if she keeps asking me about my love life?
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Joe Stud
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shes interested. it's "nibbling" if you were/are a fisheman
WaterTiger
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She says: Why did you break up?
Translation: What stupid crap do you pull and what do I have to watch out for?
She says: Do you want a girlfriend?
Translation: Are you looking for a relationship or are you a player?
She says: I kinda like some guy.
Translation: I'm desirable and wanted by other men
She says: Do you like that girl?
Translation: Is she your girlfriend? How hard do I have to work to make you mine?
Translation: What stupid crap do you pull and what do I have to watch out for?
She says: Do you want a girlfriend?
Translation: Are you looking for a relationship or are you a player?
She says: I kinda like some guy.
Translation: I'm desirable and wanted by other men
She says: Do you like that girl?
Translation: Is she your girlfriend? How hard do I have to work to make you mine?
jophil28
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I agree with Water T. X 4WaterTiger said:
OH, and BTW, she would not be asking these questions unless she was interested in you as a potential B/f.
Your move.
Maxtro
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Seriously?WaterTiger said:
If so, women are insane.
That makes me feel like I need to have a listening device on me and a team in a van out back telling me what she is really saying.
BTW what is the proper way to answer those questions?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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She says: Why did you break up?
Translation: What stupid crap do you pull and what do I have to watch out for?
Answer: I'm not sure why.
She says: Do you want a girlfriend?
Translation: Are you looking for a relationship or are you a player?
Answer: I'm not sure. I think relationships just happen naturally. If it happens, it happens.
She says: I kinda like some guy.
Translation: I'm desirable and wanted by other men
Answer: Good luck. Maybe you should go for him.
She says: Do you like that girl?
Translation: Is she your girlfriend? How hard do I have to work to make you mine?
Answer: Yeah, I like her. She is a lot of fun to hang out with sometimes.
Translation: What stupid crap do you pull and what do I have to watch out for?
Answer: I'm not sure why.
She says: Do you want a girlfriend?
Translation: Are you looking for a relationship or are you a player?
Answer: I'm not sure. I think relationships just happen naturally. If it happens, it happens.
She says: I kinda like some guy.
Translation: I'm desirable and wanted by other men
Answer: Good luck. Maybe you should go for him.
She says: Do you like that girl?
Translation: Is she your girlfriend? How hard do I have to work to make you mine?
Answer: Yeah, I like her. She is a lot of fun to hang out with sometimes.
kingsam
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this would imply you got dumped by her (if u dumped her you would know the reason!), thus it devaluates you...= you less desirableDonnie Darko said:
these arnt exactly great answers.. they seem kinda confromtational, not really funny/****y and not DHV there (which you could get in to these answers)Donnie Darko said:
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Thanks for the feedback. I just recently read all of Pook's 10 complied posts on Anti-Dump's the machine and that probably was pretty influential in my thinking for those responses. For me those responses are far better than what I would have said in the past where I would have probably given long truthful AFC answers. Your points about displaying high value and being funny/****y are good though and I'll consider that more in the future.kingsam said:
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How the hell did you figure this sh*t out? +1 rep for you!WaterTiger said:
OP, she's interested in you.