What does Genuine Desire look like to you?

[lamath]

The glaze in thier eyes.

 

[Aristippus]

Some behaviors of genuine desire I've experienced:
A woman who is jealous and wants you to herself. A woman sending you love songs by text. Saying she never wants you to leave her. Telling you she enjoys spending time with you. Having a good sex life and her telling you how much she enjoys sex with you. Making future plans with you (this could be short or long-term)....think anything from future dates or future trips together to more serious things. In her mind she sees you together in the future. Just a few examples.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

It's always fleeting so I really don't trust it.

I’m approaching this mental degree.
Only because she is all attached today don’t mean sh1t by next week. They got to many distractions.

 

[Redwood]

I’m approaching this mental degree.
Only because she is all attached today don’t mean sh1t by next week. They got to many distractions.

Even tomorrow or 15 minutes from now, heh.

 

[alvinkels]

I haven't spoken to my girl for the past seven days... didn't reply her messages either she pissed me off but yesterday I had a bank alert from her...
When you experience it you will know. Don't settle for less

 

[Focal core]

1.Simps give the money to her then she gave it to her man she really wants.
2.she will finds a 1 reason to be with you even there's 100 reason not to.
3. Dry you up anytime you wants anywhere you wants.
4. Shes deep invested in you , money , and emotionally.
5. She change her religion, leave her country for you.basically leave everything behind.
6. She add value to your life, shes the superwomen who supports you!
7. She doesnt play games with you. Why would she risks to losing you.

Do i need to see more. Its so easy.

 

[Jor-El]

Gotta be careful.... I said to a girl once "Id go to the ends of the earth for you"
Her: Yes,but would you stay there ?

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

I believe that relationships become dysfunctional and toxic when the genuine desire is gone.

Most men in relationships, including players start to negotiate this desire and like Rollo says, "You can't negotiate genuine desire." Once you negotiate it, things start to crumble. Men negotiate desire by taking girls on dates, doing her favors, or any behavior that sub-communicates you're doing something to earn sex as a reward.

A good marker of how healthy a relationship is gauged by how many times she initiates any sexual advances on you. If it turns out that you're doing all the work, she doesn't genuinely desire you and the relationship is based on something other than her feral, primal sexual needs.

This is a red pill that many guys must know and one that too many look over by saying, "Oh, well I'm the man and I'm suppose to take charge” While that is true, a woman who is really into you will take charge in letting you know that she is down for some sex.

We can now see why girls stray off and wander onto other men given this knowledge. I will go further and say that alot of women often run back to old boyfriends after they've had failed relationships with other men, that's just fact.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Gotta be careful.... I said to a girl once "Id go to the ends of the earth for you"
Her: Yes,but would you stay there ?

Oh she was totally on your game! Snap! Damnnnn

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

THIS. Spot da fack on!

The following belongs in the handbook.

A good marker of how healthy a relationship is gauged by how many times she initiates any sexual advances on you. If it turns out that you're doing all the work, she doesn't genuinely desire you and the relationship is based on something other than her feral, primal sexual needs.

I will go further and say that alot of women often run back to old boyfriends after they've had failed relationships with other men, that's just fact.

@Giovanni SouthSide is a dangerous man, put away your women!

 

[Manure Spherian]

From F. Roger Devlin’s essay “Rotating Polyandry”:

“Biochemical research points to a natural four-year sexual cycle for the human female. This apparently allows enough time after childbirth for the average mother in a state of savagery to regain her ability to survive without male provisioning. In the absence of any system of marriage, a woman’s natural tendency is to “liberate” herself from her mate after that point. When her hormones prompt her to reproduce again, she simply takes a new mate.”

“Feral female sexual behavior is governed by a number of chemicals. The euphoria of infatuation is associated with the stimulant pheylethylamine, naturally produced in the body by erotic attraction. As with other drugs, it is addictive, and people gradually build up a tolerance to it, requiring ever-greater levels to achieve the same effect. Over time, it loses its power over us, and infatuation is replaced by a calm feeling of attachment to our mates. There are neurochemical factors at work here as well. But the feeling of attachment or bondedness is akin to the effect of a sedative or narcotic rather than a stimulant.”

“The author is not a professional researcher in any of these fields herself. She relates that, after four years of happy marriage and shortly after her 27th birthday, she began to feel bored and unhappy for no apparent reason.”

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Phenylethylamine (PEA), often found in chocolate, has been linked to feelings of well-being and contentment, which has led to its reputation as a "love drug." It's known for its ability to elevate mood and increase alertness due to its amphetamine-like effects, which include raising blood pressure and blood glucose levels. This effect is thought to be due to its ability to make the brain release beta-endorphin, an opioid peptide responsible for pleasurable effects. This action of PEA, especially its mood-elevating properties, is one reason chocolate is often regarded as an aphrodisiac. However, it's important to note that the effects of PEA are typically short-lived due to its rapid breakdown by enzymes in the body.

Phenylethylamine

Despite this, the claim that chocolate, and by extension PEA, acts as an aphrodisiac is not strongly supported by scientific evidence. For instance, a McGill University article points out that chocolate contains PEA and has been historically linked to love and romance, but it's not an effective aphrodisiac. The article explains that most PEA in chocolate is metabolized during digestion, and blood levels of PEA do not rise after eating chocolate. Furthermore, chocolate isn't a big source of PEA compared to other foods like sauerkraut. So take her to a German pub and have her try sauerkraut and hopefully (your) sausage...

The "Chemical of Love"

The aphrodisiac story of chocolate is an ancient one, going back all the way to 1519 and the first visit of the Spanish explorer Hernando Cortes to Mexico. Cortes found much to his liking here, in particular the Aztec princess Dona Marina. Apparently the affection was returned because the...

www.mcgill.ca

Supporting this view, this article discusses a study exploring whether women who ate chocolate daily had higher libido than those who didn't. Initially, the study suggested a positive correlation, but after adjusting for age, the libidos of the women were found to be about the same. The article also mentions that PEA's effects are short-lived due to the presence of an enzyme called monoamine oxidase (MAO), which breaks down PEA quickly. Therefore, PEA levels don't significantly increase even in people who consume a lot of chocolate.

How Aphrodisiacs Work

Most of us have heard the talk about oysters and chocolate, and maybe you've read an article about the stimulating effects of ginseng. But garlic, licorice and cucumber? Learn about the history of aphrodisiacs and whether they've been proven to be effective.

science.howstuffworks.com

So, phenylethylamine (PEA) in chocolate might make you feel good and a bit like you're in love, but science isn't convinced it makes you more romantic or boosts your sex drive. The good vibes from chocolate and PEA could be more about them being stimulants rather than directly firing up your love life.

 

[Aristippus]

Phenylethylamine (PEA), often found in chocolate, has been linked to feelings of well-being and contentment, which has led to its reputation as a "love drug." It's known for its ability to elevate mood and increase alertness due to its amphetamine-like effects, which include raising blood pressure and blood glucose levels. This effect is thought to be due to its ability to make the brain release beta-endorphin, an opioid peptide responsible for pleasurable effects. This action of PEA, especially its mood-elevating properties, is one reason chocolate is often regarded as an aphrodisiac. However, it's important to note that the effects of PEA are typically short-lived due to its rapid breakdown by enzymes in the body.

Phenylethylamine

Despite this, the claim that chocolate, and by extension PEA, acts as an aphrodisiac is not strongly supported by scientific evidence. For instance, a McGill University article points out that chocolate contains PEA and has been historically linked to love and romance, but it's not an effective aphrodisiac. The article explains that most PEA in chocolate is metabolized during digestion, and blood levels of PEA do not rise after eating chocolate. Furthermore, chocolate isn't a big source of PEA compared to other foods like sauerkraut. So take her to a German pub and have her try sauerkraut and hopefully (your) sausage...

The "Chemical of Love"

The aphrodisiac story of chocolate is an ancient one, going back all the way to 1519 and the first visit of the Spanish explorer Hernando Cortes to Mexico. Cortes found much to his liking here, in particular the Aztec princess Dona Marina. Apparently the affection was returned because the...

www.mcgill.ca

Supporting this view, this article discusses a study exploring whether women who ate chocolate daily had higher libido than those who didn't. Initially, the study suggested a positive correlation, but after adjusting for age, the libidos of the women were found to be about the same. The article also mentions that PEA's effects are short-lived due to the presence of an enzyme called monoamine oxidase (MAO), which breaks down PEA quickly. Therefore, PEA levels don't significantly increase even in people who consume a lot of chocolate.

How Aphrodisiacs Work

Most of us have heard the talk about oysters and chocolate, and maybe you've read an article about the stimulating effects of ginseng. But garlic, licorice and cucumber? Learn about the history of aphrodisiacs and whether they've been proven to be effective.

science.howstuffworks.com

So, phenylethylamine (PEA) in chocolate might make you feel good and a bit like you're in love, but science isn't convinced it makes you more romantic or boosts your sex drive. The good vibes from chocolate and PEA could be more about them being stimulants rather than directly firing up your love life.

Let me guess. You work for Godiva.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Want to know what genuine desire looks like?

/bragmode on

Kinda like this - new plate:



Always keep them qualifying themselves to you, once they start it just chill and listen.

/bragmode off

 

[JoyDivision1990]

Want to know what genuine desire looks like?

Kinda like this - new plate:

View attachment 11745

Always keep them qualifying themselves to you, once they start it just chill and listen.

/bragmode off

Just out of curiosity, how old is this one? Did you meet on line?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

43, yes, Bumble.

Just out of curiosity, how old is this one? Did you meet on line?

 

[JoyDivision1990]

Thanks, one more question. Do you believe her "I've never navigated these types of waters"?

Sounds like a load of * lol but she DOES sound VERY into you so who cares?

There's a lesson to be learned from this for all the guys who think 30+ women have hit the wall.

I think not!! Not from this interaction.

Enjoy man.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Without sharing too much identifiable information, she is low count - even multiplied by 3, has a body that would put most 20-year-olds to shame (tri-athlete), the pelvic floor muscles to go with it, is insecure about what shes doing in bed, and if I like it (which tells me she lacks the confidence that comes with high body counts) and the way she follows me around like a puppy dog, I'm thinking she's much less experienced than most. If she's to be believed, she's been off the market for years.

In any case, it's all irrelevant to me; we're having a lot of fun.

Thanks, one more question. Do you believe her "never navigated these types of waters"?

Sounds like a load of * lol but she DOES sound VERY into you so who cares?

There's a lesson to be learned from this for all the guys who think 30+ women have hit the wall.

I think not!! Not from this interaction.

Enjoy man.

 

[JoyDivision1990]

Without sharing too much identifiable information, she is low count - even multiplied by 3, has a body that would put most 20-year-olds to shame (tri-athlete), the pelvic floor muscles to go with it, is insecure about what shes doing in bed, and if I like it (which tells me she lacks the confidence that comes with high body counts) and the way she follows me around like a puppy dog, I'm thinking she's much less experienced than most. If she's to be believed, she's been off the market for years.

In any case, it's all irrelevant to me; we're having a lot of fun.

Sounds like you bring the dirty slut out of her, every woman's dream!! Truth.

Glad you're having fun, that's all that matters at the end of day. .

 

[pipeman84]

Want to know what genuine desire looks like?

/bragmode on

Kinda like this - new plate:

View attachment 11745

Always keep them qualifying themselves to you, once they start it just chill and listen.

/bragmode off

I think this is a good opportunity to make the distinction between authentic genuine desire coming from a healthy, trustworthy person and crazy desire coming from a damaged person and which usually ends quickly or sometimes in trouble (for an extreme case, see the movie Fatal Attraction).
A 43yrs old woman from Bumble writing that kind of text gives me the icky vibes.

Without sharing too much identifiable information, she is low count - even multiplied by 3, has a body that would put most 20-year-olds to shame (tri-athlete), the pelvic floor muscles to go with it, is insecure about what shes doing in bed, and if I like it (which tells me she lacks the confidence that comes with high body counts) and the way she follows me around like a puppy dog, I'm thinking she's much less experienced than most. If she's to be believed, she's been off the market for years.

One shouldn't believe anything a hoe says. On a forum a guy was writing about his experience with an escort who is also a pornstar, and he was saying that she told him he has a big dyck (I think she claimed she was uncomfortable in a certain position, I don't remember exactly). And he was surprised, thinking that his isn't that big and with her being a pornstar she's used with big dycks anyway. And then she told him that male pornstars don't really have big dycks, just looks like that due to camera angles and how they film it. And the guy apparently believed that BS.