When women say they want a guy who is "exciting" or "fun to be around" or similar buzzword, what exactly do they mean by this word? Do they literally mean an adventurous Indiana Jones type figure, someone who likes to do extreme sports and travel to exotic places, a guy who can entertain them and tell funny/wild stories or perform magic tricks, etc. Or do is this woman ese for something else entirely? What about a "boring nice guy", what is this exactly? Is it the kind of guy who goes to his desk job and comes home, sits in front of the TV, has no hobbies, and is literally boring to be around in the sense that we guys would consider boring, or is it also woman ese for something different?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What does "exciting" mean to women?
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