When women say they want a guy who is "exciting" or "fun to be around" or similar buzzword, what exactly do they mean by this word? Do they literally mean an adventurous Indiana Jones type figure, someone who likes to do extreme sports and travel to exotic places, a guy who can entertain them and tell funny/wild stories or perform magic tricks, etc. Or do is this woman ese for something else entirely? What about a "boring nice guy", what is this exactly? Is it the kind of guy who goes to his desk job and comes home, sits in front of the TV, has no hobbies, and is literally boring to be around in the sense that we guys would consider boring, or is it also woman ese for something different?
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What does "exciting" mean to women?
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