When women say they want a guy who is "exciting" or "fun to be around" or similar buzzword, what exactly do they mean by this word? Do they literally mean an adventurous Indiana Jones type figure, someone who likes to do extreme sports and travel to exotic places, a guy who can entertain them and tell funny/wild stories or perform magic tricks, etc. Or do is this woman ese for something else entirely? What about a "boring nice guy", what is this exactly? Is it the kind of guy who goes to his desk job and comes home, sits in front of the TV, has no hobbies, and is literally boring to be around in the sense that we guys would consider boring, or is it also woman ese for something different?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What does "exciting" mean to women?
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