"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
what does afc stand for?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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There is a list of ancronyms on the DJ bible, if you look at the FAQ, and if you review the first stickey threads - the ones that say read before posting anything, you should find all the information there.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Badmannaz
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You know your one of these guys if you've done the following....
1.given flowers on the 1st date...
2.came to sosuave...(sorry guys we were all AFC once in a blue moon)
3.u fell for a AW
4.You got dumped for the guy she cheated on you with and then got LJBf'd and became her best friend (loser)
5. your scared of women
6. you care too much about her feelings
7. you've been on 6 dates and you've yet to get a kiss
8.you cried when she said she didn't like you anymore
9. she dumped you and all you think about is her (ONS) <---it's a *****!!
10. you fall in love for the 1st girl who says "she likes you"
yea.... that's you....if your doing any of those
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Ok, I must be a big AFC. I like to give a girl at least one nice flower on a "first date" before I take her to TGI Friday's. If I am meeting her at her mother's apartment I always bring a nice picture book of my hometown back in America for her mother :rock: . I care about her feelings. I still fall in love with girls before I even get to know them that well. This usually happens anytime I use public transportation :yes: . I don't even expect a kiss from her to begin with. I know that deep down she wants to be mine the moment she hears my retarded sounding accent, but why rush love?
Funny thing is that I have NEVER been dumped, I have NEVER been turned down, and girls WANT to make me happy.
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