"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
what does afc stand for?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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There is a list of ancronyms on the DJ bible, if you look at the FAQ, and if you review the first stickey threads - the ones that say read before posting anything, you should find all the information there.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Badmannaz
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You know your one of these guys if you've done the following....
1.given flowers on the 1st date...
2.came to sosuave...(sorry guys we were all AFC once in a blue moon)
3.u fell for a AW
4.You got dumped for the guy she cheated on you with and then got LJBf'd and became her best friend (loser)
5. your scared of women
6. you care too much about her feelings
7. you've been on 6 dates and you've yet to get a kiss
8.you cried when she said she didn't like you anymore
9. she dumped you and all you think about is her (ONS) <---it's a *****!!
10. you fall in love for the 1st girl who says "she likes you"
yea.... that's you....if your doing any of those
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Ok, I must be a big AFC. I like to give a girl at least one nice flower on a "first date" before I take her to TGI Friday's. If I am meeting her at her mother's apartment I always bring a nice picture book of my hometown back in America for her mother :rock: . I care about her feelings. I still fall in love with girls before I even get to know them that well. This usually happens anytime I use public transportation :yes: . I don't even expect a kiss from her to begin with. I know that deep down she wants to be mine the moment she hears my retarded sounding accent, but why rush love?
Funny thing is that I have NEVER been dumped, I have NEVER been turned down, and girls WANT to make me happy.
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